How did you get started writing fiction?
I always wrote fiction, but it took me years to find the time and the confidence to write an entire novel without knowing whether it would ever get sold --- and to learn how to write a novel, period. I spent a long time writing short stories, which I loved, but you canít earn a living doing that. And once I had children, I had time only to write what I knew was going to earn money: magazine articles and my baby-naming books. After my last child was in nursery school, I began devoting consistent time to working on a novel, to take the process seriously and to stick at it until I had a saleable draft.
How much does your life influence your fiction?
I feel I really became a novelist when I learned to let go of reality
‚ hard to do for someone like me whoíd written magazine articles and
non-fiction books for years ‚ and created fictional characters and
invented their unique story. So Iíd say that womenís issues, family
dilemmas that I find interesting in real life and that I personally
have lived through get explored in my novels. Some of the settings
in my books are based on places Iíve known: Kennedyís apartment in
the East Village in The Man I Should Have Married is one where I lived,
and I worked as a waitress in an Irish bar. But the bar was owned
by a woman, sadly not a sex god like Declan, and there was no Marco
in my life, and I did not become a single mom at 19. I do not have
a rich much-married mother and my husband did not leave me for a surfer.
But I have worn a strange outfit while throwing a yard sale and I
have flung a potholder that was crawling with roaches out an apartment
window.
Are the four characters in Babes in Captivity
based on women you know?
The individual women, their personalities, families, situations,
stories, are entirely invented. What is drawn from life is the power
of their friendship. Most women today have female friends who are
central to their lives and it was this relationship that I wanted
to write about. It changes form over time: You might be on a field
hockey team in high school, in a sorority in college, have a kind
of Sex & The City group of close friends when youíre single. You
segue into a momsí group once you have kids, and then perhaps a
group based on work or on mutual interests ‚ Iím part of both a
writersí group and a reading group, for instance ‚ once the kids
get older. But the closeness of the group and the value of the friendships
stays the same.
What advice do you have for fledgling novelists?
You can use elements from your real life ‚ places you love, people
youíve met, stories youíve heard ‚ but as a novelist your job is
to reshape them into a work of fiction, to create a story thatís
compelling for the reader. Before you start writing, create your
characters and sketch out your settings, know your title and your
ending. Write in scenes: The scene is the building block of any
novel. And write every day. Itís much more productive to spend an
hour a day on your novel than to spend seven hours once a week.
The last piece of advice is to get comfortable with criticism and
rejection, a major factor in every writerís career. The difference
between successful people and nonsuccessful people isnít that the
successful people get rejected less, itís that they keep going after
they do.
How much do you revise when you write your novels?
It depends on the novel. The Man was my first serious novel and
took me literally years to write, including lots of failed drafts
and wrong turns before I finally got it write. -Babes is a much
more complex book, with four main characters and four viewpoints
instead of one. I did three completely new versions of that. For
my next novel, Younger, I spent three months crafting an extremely
detailed 12-page proposal. Working out all the kinks of the story
in advance allowed me to breeze through a solid first draft ‚ the
writing took only a few months, including two extremely productive
weeks at Virginia Center for the Creative Arts, where I was freed
from having to do anything but write. |